What Matters
Mary values calm, clarity, and staying connected with the people she loves. A “good day” for her is one where she feels steady, unhurried, and able to enjoy simple moments with family. She wants her care to reflect comfort, kindness, and respect for her pace. She prefers when conversations happen slowly and when she has time to process what’s being discussed.
Anchor quote: “When people take their time with me, I feel safe.”
Medication
Mary manages her medications well when they are part of a simple routine. She feels most at ease when someone reviews them with her slowly and explains any changes in clear, plain language. She prefers having her medications organized in a way that is easy to see and understand so she doesn’t feel overwhelmed.
Anchor quote: “I just want to know what each one is for.”
Mentation
Mary notices that her memory and focus are not as sharp as they once were. She sometimes misplaces items or loses her train of thought but does best when things are kept predictable. She appreciates when others check in to confirm she is following the conversation. Too much information at once makes her anxious.
Anchor quote: “I can follow along, just not all at once.”
Mobility
Mobility is one of Mary’s biggest concerns. She has a strong fear of falling and becomes tense when she feels unsteady. She prefers short, supported walks, sturdy seating, and environments where she can hold onto something. Keeping pathways clear and moving at a slower pace helps her feel more confident and less anxious.
Anchor quote: “I just don’t want to fall.”
Memory & Expression
Mary communicates best when conversations are unhurried and when others give her a moment to gather her thoughts. She likes when people speak gently and when they repeat things without frustration. She becomes overwhelmed if she feels rushed or if several people are talking at once.
Anchor quote: “Please don’t rush me.”
Life Enjoyment
Mary enjoys soft blankets, a cool room, dim lighting, familiar music, and gentle background noise. She loves hearing updates about her children and grandchildren. Quiet companionship—simply sitting with someone—is very comforting to her.
Anchor quote: “I like having people near me.”
Health Challenges
Mary becomes anxious when dealing with complex decisions or rapid changes in her health. She benefits from clear explanations, written reminders, and a calm environment. She prefers having Joe involved in heavier decisions so she isn’t forced to process too much on her own.
Anchor quote: “I trust Joe to handle the big things.”
Closing Reflection
Mary wants her care to reflect who she is: gentle, relational, steady, and comfort-focused. She hopes those around her will move slowly, communicate clearly, and prioritize connection. She wants her wishes honored in moments of uncertainty.